Learning to navigate social relationships is a skill that is critical for surviving in human societies. For babies and young children, that means learning who they can count on to take care of them.

MIT neuroscientists have now identified a specific signal that young children and even babies use to determine whether two people have a strong relationship and a mutual obligation to help each other: whether those two people kiss, share food, or otherwise share saliva.

In a new study, the researchers found that babies actually expect those who share saliva to come to one another's aid if any one person is in distress—much more so than when people share toys or interact in other ways that do not involve the mouth.

The findings suggest that babies can use these cues to try to figure out who around them is most likely to offer help, the researchers say.

"Babies don't know in advance which relationships are the close and morally obligating ones, so they have to have some way of learning this by looking at what happens around them," says Rebecca Saxe, the John W. Jarve Professor of Brain and Cognitive Sciences, a member of MIT's McGovern Institute for Brain Research, and senior author of the new study in the journal Science.