Just because you’re not in the mood to deal with traffic, heat stroke, and overcooked meat-stuff doesn’t make you a bad person. You’re an individual. America is great because of awesome individuals. Ben Franklin, Kurt Vonnegut, that guy that screams Annie lyrics at the 7-11, are all American individuals. So if you’re feeling like skipping all the BBQ, that only makes you a realer American.
And you shouldn’t have to be bored.