Dog Gone It: An Exploration In Stateless Conflict Resolution
Catherine Bleish
Website:
Don't Tread on Cat
Date: 0000-00-00
Subject:
Communities
This is Liberty, a dog rescued from a neglectful situation across the street
from our home. She is living proof that shaking hands with your
neighbors instead of calling the state on them will bring about the best
possible solution for everyone involved.
Our dog-related conflicts began with the people across the street in late
November when a black and white puppy began hanging around their front
yard. My first interaction with the dog was catching her eating out of
our cat food bowl on the front porch. I shooed her off and tried to find
a higher place to put the cat bowl (I like attracting barn cats to chase off
mice and rabbits!).
A few days later I caught her in our back yard chasing our chickens, so I carried
her over to their house and knocked on the door. When I handed her over I
asked their young daughter to translate for me and to let her mom know the dog
was chasing our chickens. The mother denied that the dog was theirs and
said it was hanging around because they were feeding their new German Shepherd
in the backyard (it was chained up). She said the black and white dog
belonged to the people down the street and she would talk to them.
On yet another occasion, I heard a commotion out front and went to the window
to see the mother from across the street standing halfway down our driveway
quietly calling for the dog. I ran into our back yard to find her chasing
our chickens again! Thankfully she was too small to do much damage at
this point and I was able to quickly catch her. When I handed her back, I
told her with some anger that this had to stop.
By December we had talked to the neighbors down the road and they told us they
had given the dog to the mother across the street as a gift (the one denying it
was hers while simultaneously taking it every time I brought it over).
The chicken-chasing and food-raiding had continued, my frustrated door knocking
had escalated, and we began experiencing the additional problem of the German
Shepherd getting loose and coming onto our property and barking at our house
guests.
In January, just as my second trimester of pregnancy ended I heard a loud
squawking noise out front. I called for John and ran full steam at the German
Shepherd holding one of my chickens in his mouth. Screaming at the top of
my lungs I chased him toward his property, tripping and falling in the middle
of the street. From my hands and knees in the middle of the road I
screamed as loud as I could, somehow scaring the German Shepherd into dropping
the bird.
I then ran to their front door pounding and screaming like a mad woman, with
bleeding knees, hands and feet, and chasing the dog every time it tried to go
after the bird again until they finally answered the door. I was sobbing
and furious and spent the next 45 minutes in a “come to Jesus” meeting in their
living room.
One of their housemates, the owner of the German Shepherd, speaks English and
he translated between myself and the family. He expressed great remorse
and agreed to keep better watch of his dog, the mother and father of the house
reluctantly agreed to take responsibility for the black and white dog (Liberty)
because their young daughter wanted to keep her.
It broke my heart to see both dogs chained in the front yard after that.
Rain, freeze or shine, those dogs were there. They would cry out at night
and my daughter would sign "hurt" and point to the front window when
she heard them cry out. I could not stand to have her see dogs treated
like this as we are huge animal lovers and did not want her to think this was
okay.
Then a second family with four more children moved in. This is when the
especially cruel treatment began. The neglect turned into abuse and
included spraying the black and white dog (Liberty) in the face with a hose
while she was tied to the end of her chain and unable to get away, throwing
objects at the dogs and our chickens, and even hitting the dog. Every
time I saw such an injustice I would shout for them to stop. If it was
directed at our animals, I would march over and tell their parents to deal with
the situation.
Then things took a turn for the worse. The owner of the German Shepherd,
the mother and father who had taken responsibility for the black and white dog
(Liberty), and two of their children left for a week. While they were out of
town, the father of the newest set of four kids was left at the house with six
children.
He did not feed or water the dogs the first four days they were left
there. When a wind storm hit with 45 mph winds, they were both left
cowering as debris and branches blasted them. By the end of the storm the
German Shepherd's chain was wrapped around a large toy car, leaving him no more
than a foot of space to move (thankfully the tree hit the toy and not the dog!).
The temperature dropped below forty and the poor doggies were left right there,
totally exposed.
When the black and white dog (Liberty) got off her chain and began hunting
squirrels to eat, I got on Facebook and had a friend translate a letter to the
dad asking him to please feed the dogs and provide them shelter from the
elements. I delivered the letter and he tried to explain their housing
situation to me in very broken English. He did not go feed the dogs or do
anything to wrangle the loose one.
The next day John arrived home from his trip to Liberty Forum in New
Hampshire. He knocked on the door across the street and told the man
watching all the kids that he had to take care of the dogs. The man told
John he did not own the dogs and John asked him to please help the dogs and to
please help us by feeding and watering them. In addition to our concern
for the dog’s well-being, we did not want a hungry dog and known chicken-chasers
loose near our property.
Now, bear in mind we had both posted on Facebook asking for advice on how to
deal with this situation. Calling animal control, calling the police and
shooting the dogs when they come on our property were all suggested
solutions. We didn't want to hurt the dogs and we certainly did not want
to entangle ourselves or our neighbors with the state, so we decided to wait
until the owners came home and deal with them face to face.
John wrote a very strong letter (see below) demanding they care for the dogs or
relinquish them to us to find better housing. The letter said in part,
“the next time your dog comes on our property, we will take it and find it a
better home.” Two days after the letter was left on the front porch after
repeated knocking to no avail, John went across the street to speak to the “man
of the house”. In his best broken Spanish, he convinced the mother and
father, who had previously agreed to take care of the black and white dog
(Liberty) and neglected to do so, to let us find her a better home.
Thankfully our friend Caitlyn was willing and able to help in this
process.
One week after their return from the week of neglect, Caitlyn arrived to pick
up Liberty. Thank goodness, too, because John had to stop the kids from
each individually hitting her one after the other in the driveway. When
one girl tried to defend the dog, they started hitting the girl.
Since Liberty's rescue, the German Shepherd was caught loose once, chasing our
beautiful peacock. This was days before my due date and I shouted at him
from our driveway. John went to talk to him and he apologized greatly and
said he had to run inside to deal with a situation and left the dog
off-leash. He has been spending more time with the German Shepherd and
the dog now lives in their chicken coop with access to shelter, food and
water.
I want the readers to hear this story in its entirety to understand that
dealing with our neighbors instead of calling the state is a long and tedious
process. Despite the stress and the months of anguish over the situation,
we managed to find the dogs better treatment, build a stronger bond with our
neighbors, and prevented anyone from entanglement with a violent institution.
Moving forward John and I plan to take our community relationships to the next
level. Not only do we intend to resolve our conflicts face to face, but
we plan to open part of our yard as a community garden to teach our neighbors
the joy of growing their own food. This will help make our neighborhood
more resilient as the dollar slowly collapses. Hopefully, one day, we'll
be bartering with our neighbors as well!
PS: if you're interested in adopting Liberty, please shoot me an email at
Cat.Bleish@gmail.com and I will get you
in touch with Caitlyn. Liberty is now potty-trained, fully fed, and looking
for a forever home! Yeah for community solutions!
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