I'll start with my testimony.
My parents got divorced when I was 11 years old. It took its toll on my brother and I, especially at such a young age. In between the ages of 11 and 14, I became a porn addict. I turned to the things of this world: porn, lust, and profanity. But my 8th grade year, a girl that went to a school nearby got hit by a car walking distance from my house and died. Over the next few months, I started to look at my life differently and realized that I'm not living a holy, righteous life. But again, Christianity is not a list of dos-and-donts. It's not about what I do.