At the time I thought he was crazy, but the next year I heard the same from another friend. His take was even more troubling: "There is a loosely connected group of advocates that have found huge traction with the current civilian leadership here and they have a pretty well-thought out campaign plan to get women into combat arms," he told me. "Some of the groups simply want equality, others talk about more women generals, and there's one group that is linking this to changing American male culture." Looking back, many of the things I am seeing now make sense when remembering my friends' comments.