To clarify "feminist":  In the past when I have criticized feminists older women who had careers asked why I thought women shouldn't have careers.  Their idea is that a feminist is a woman who has a career. 

The Disappearance of the Male Role: But women have always had careers as mothers, homemakers, grandmothers, school teachers, nurses, secretaries, writers, artists, musicians, scientists, and even spies such as Eve Gordon who made during World War II 112 parachute jumps into occupied Europe, writes Dr. Paul Craig Roberts, chairman of The Institute for Political Economy, former associate editor of the Wall Street Journal, US Undersecretary of the Treasury in the Reagan administration and an author of many books. He is a regular contributor to the Herland Report.

The Disappearance of the Male Role: "Hanne Nabintu Herland is a leading intellect of the Western world and one of the few remaining European intellectuals to stand up for truth. She is a defender of civilization and Christian morality and a stalwart opponent of the Satanic forces that are attacking our civilization. She has written another important book in which she explains the consequences of the control exercised over the entire Western World by a handful of giant American investment companies who have no commitment to freedom and morality." Dr. Paul Craig Roberts, leading American political economist

The Disappearance of the Male Role: Even in pre-feminist days, one of my aunts despite being married had a career outside the home. She enjoyed the discipline of getting to work on time, the interaction with other people, and meeting new ones.  

By feminist I mean a person with an ideological agenda of obliterating the difference between men and women.  

When I was young men were raised to respect women. When a woman entered a room, the men stood. Doors were opened for women and their entrance proceeded  the man's. Car doors were opened for women who were helped in and out.